Let's start with the my favorite word -
"actually" - BE-ETZEM. :) Why is it my favorite? Because of the very interesting root that it has! The "BE-" part, as you see, is a preposition "in." The ETZEM part is a noun, and a noun that has, actually (בעצם!) two meanings!
One – it means
"a bone" – yes, a bone, like the bones we have in our body. Remember the Biblical "עֶצֶם מֵעֲצָמַי וּבָשָׂר מִבְּשָׂרִי לְזֹאת יִקָּרֵא אִשָּׁה כִּי מֵאִישׁ לֻקֳחָה זֹּאת" – that's what Adam says when Eve is created. :)
(*I have a video of this chapter in simple Hebrew, by the way – have you seen it? If not - here – Enjoy! 😉).
Now, to the second meaning.
Two – it means
"self"! What can be more "self" than our bones, right? ;) And it's also part of such useful words as "myself," "yourself," "herself"! Just add the short for "I\you\her\..." and get בְּעַצְמִי - / בְּעַצְמְךָ - / בְּעַצְמוֹ - etc…
You see now why I like it.:)
Let's look at some examples with בָּעֶצֶם now:
.בְּעֶצֶם, רָצִיתִי לִכְתֹּב מַשֶּׁהוּ אַחֵר, אֲבָל חָשַׁבְתִּי שֶׁזֶּה חָשׁוּב אָז שִׁנִּיתִי אֶת דַּעְתִּיActually, I wanted to write something else, but I thought that it's important, so I changed my mind.
?לָמָּה, בְּעֶצֶם, אַתָּה לֹא קוֹנֶה בַּיִת כָּאן בַּיִּשּׁוּב -
- Why, actually, don't you buy a house here in the village?
.מָה, בְּעֶצֶם, קוֹרָה פֶּה?
What's happening here, actually?